[MercuryT]

Originally Posted by leesa

Lack of sex in a relationship isn't a problem.
Lack of sex in a relationship is a symptom of a different problem.

Very generally speaking, most women lose interest in sex when there's a problem in the relationship (from her perspective). It could be something small like disagreements about housework, mental load, not spending enough time together, yadda yadda. Men seem to ignore those issues and still want sex but I can almost guarantee you that she's going to lose interest. She'll probably then start trying to communicate to get the issues sorted and the sex drive will return... or it won't... and we all know where that ends up.

Thanks Oprah.